Some students come to college with a plan. Kelsi Oyer came to North Carolina Wesleyan University ready to make the most of every opportunity. And if her college résumé is any indication, she hasn’t wasted a minute.

Originally from Chillicothe, Ohio, Oyer made the move to North Carolina on her own, bringing with her a love for lacrosse, an interest in forensics, and a willingness to try something new. Fast forward to her senior year, and she’s become a familiar face across campus as captain of the women’s lacrosse team, president of Wesleyan’s Morgan’s Message chapter, a Head Resident Advisor, and, most recently, the university’s 2026 Homecoming Queen.

But for Oyer, being a Bishop has never been about collecting titles. It’s about finding her people, getting involved, and making sure others feel like they belong, too.

Morgan’s Message Responsibility

That passion shines through in her work with Morgan’s Message, an organization dedicated to raising awareness about mental health among student-athletes. As chapter president, Oyer works to create opportunities for honest conversations and remind students that they don’t have to navigate life’s challenges alone.

Having experienced her own mental health challenges, the mission is especially meaningful to her.

“I think mental health should get the same attention as physical health,” Oyer said. “I want other students to know they don’t have to have everything figured out or go through tough times alone.”

It’s a message she hopes resonates throughout the athletic community, too. Between classes, practices, games, and everything else college life throws your way, Oyer knows how easy it can be to put pressure on yourself to keep pushing.

“Student-athletes are people first, and their worth isn’t based on how they perform in sports or in class,” she said.

Importance of Community

And when she’s not on the lacrosse field or helping lead conversations about mental health, you might find Oyer supporting students in her role as a Head RA, spending time with friends, or celebrating another memorable Homecoming.

After being nominated for Homecoming Princess in 2024 and 2025, Oyer was named the 2026 Homecoming Queen. For her, the recognition was about more than a crown. It was a reflection of the relationships she’s built and the community that has supported her along the way.

One person who’s been there through it all is her best friend, Jillian Stine. From encouraging Oyer to become a Resident Advisor to returning to campus to escort her as Homecoming Queen, Stine has been a constant source of support. It’s one of those friendships that reminds you just how special the college experience can be.

What’s Next?

Of course, Oyer’s next chapter is already taking shape. A double major in Criminal Justice and Biology, she hopes to pursue a master’s degree and build a career in forensics. So while she may be trading her Homecoming crown for a lab coat someday, her desire to make a difference isn’t going anywhere.

Looking back on her time at Wesleyan, Oyer credits the experience with helping her become more independent, confident, and willing to step outside her comfort zone.

Her advice to students just starting their college journey? Say yes to the opportunities. Meet new people. Get involved. Don’t be afraid to try something that feels a little intimidating.

After all, sometimes moving halfway across the country leads to a whole lot more than a college degree. Sometimes, it leads you to a place you can call home.